I feel so terrible and helpless when it comes to you. I see you hurt, and it’s like all I can do is sit and watch. I’m really trying and I know I may not always help, but I’m hear for you. I see you’re overwhelmed and stressed to the max; but don’t worry, it all just takes a little time. I love you babe and I know it hasn’t been long, but we’ve been through quite a bit; maybe it’s just me, but I feel we’re going strong. So don’t fret, or try to stress. I’m right by your side, please don’t feel helpless.
You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind. That’s the only thing you should be trying to control.
It wasn’t real. I deluded myself. I had this aching need to be loved and it was screwing with my head. Sometimes, when you crave certain feelings, you’ll trick yourself into thinking the other person is something other than what he appears.
Tapir Cub and Mum by Klaus Wiese.
If you’re not an on/off switch person, you have to be wary of them. Knowing that even though everything is fine right now, it could change in an instant is unnerving. We don’t want to be on edge, watching what we say, telling ourselves not to feel, talking ourselves out of love. It’s the risk we all take, hoping for big bucks, no whammies. A chance at love with the possibility of running into our worst nightmare. As bad as it feels when that happens, it’s important to remember in great detail how horrible of an experience it was. Then in the future, not only are you somewhat impervious to heartache, but also more considerate of others’ feelings, regardless of the situation.
Easter Island by Cohise.